Sometimes it is hard to know what is OK and what is not. Or we can point out what we need, but don't acknowledge the needs of our partner. Take a look at our list of rights and responsibilities. Let us know if you agree or have something to add.
Each Partner has the Right...
* To express their own feelings and opinions, whether or not their partner agrees. * To be themselves. * To make decisions about themselves for themselves and to have equal decision-making power in the relationship. * To say ‘no’ to any physical act that makes them uncomfortable at any time. * To refuse a date at any time. * To make and maintain friendships with whomever they choose. * To participate in activities without their partner. * To control their own money and possessions. * To live free from fear and abuse. * To end the relationship when they desire. |
Each Partner has the Responsibility...
* To treat their partner with respect, equality, and honesty. * To encourage their partner’s dreams and individuality. * To never humiliate or put down their partner. * To respect their partner’s decisions- even if you don’t agree. * To respect and understand that their partner has the right to say ‘no’ at any point and any time regardless of previous consent. * To solve problems calmly and equally. * To accept responsibility for their own actions. * To be willing to apologize as well as accept apologies. * To never pressure, control, or manipulate their partner. * To never emotionally, sexually, or physically hurt their partner. * To never threaten or harm their partner or themselves in a way to hurt or control their partner. |